you see, it is quite the inverse for me. it screws with my head if people write things that don't belong in a post (because they don't know the answer) only because they think they have to write something down. so rather then writing an answer i knew would not help you, i stayed quiet, but still read the post.
not knowing the inside of your head, how should anyone here know that you take that personally/that it messes with your head?
and as also stated before, i don't need the answer, i just find it a bit ironic that you ask for help in a forum, and once you don't get any (for reasons we don't know, but i gave some suggestions) and find the answer yourself, you are not willing to share it. but ok, it is your work, so your choice as well.